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During conversations having to do with living into our dreams, it is very
often highlighted as a crucial piece to the puzzle. We often find ourselves
expressing a desire and need for more of it. And if we are not feeling grounded
in it, the experience of moving forward with our visions from a place of ease
and flow tends to elude us.
So what is the IT that I am referring to here?
Well, I first want to acknowledge that there are probably a number of things
that could be a perfect answer to that question! But today I want to focus
on one in particular.
Clarity.
Yes indeed, clarity is a powerful, powerful thing. And I
believe that we know this on an intuitive level, which leads us to look in
this direction on a regular basis.
Yet, as frequently as we may talk about clarity as part of manifesting
our dreams, I find that we could often benefit from diving more deeply into
the subject. For example, what exactly do we mean when we say clarity?
Why is clarity so important? And to best serve our dreams, what do we want
to have immense clarity about?
In hopes of supporting you in this arena, I would love to outline
five things that you want to be crystal clear about to dramatically increase
your success with realizing your dreams.
So here we go. Let's get clear about clarity!
~ Clarity about the fact that you are the designer of your life
When it comes to fully owning your creative power as the architect of your
life, how would you describe yourself? Are you enjoying a deep sense of knowing
that Source is your Divine partner and that life is happening "through
you?" Or do you have the tendency to feel that life is happening "to
you?" I urge you to not underestimate the difference between the two.
When you are crystal clear that you are the designer of your life, you no
longer feel at the mercy of circumstances. You are fully embracing the truth
that you are creating your life with the thoughts you think, the beliefs you
hold and the stories you tell. It is about no longer sleepwalking through
your days. No more living in automatic pilot mode. Instead, you are practicing
tons of conscious choice and you are savoring an empowered stance in your
life. As Abraham (of the Abraham-Hicks teachings) says, "If you will
let your dominant intention be to revise and improve the content of the story
you tell every day of your life, it is our absolute promise to you that your
life will become that ever-improving story. For by the powerful Law of Attraction--the
essence of that which is like unto itself is drawn--it must be!"
~ Clarity about the gifts you offer when you are honoring and living
your dream Sometimes we are holding back with our dreams because
we feel selfish, guilty or fearful of shaking things up. We can get trapped
in worry about what others might think, eventually allowing ourselves to be
convinced that we "shouldn't" pursue our dreams. I find this dynamic
to be especially true if those in our personal circle are stuck in survival
mode. Amidst such struggle, we can then experience even more difficulty giving
ourselves permission to thrive. But let me be very clear regarding this next
point. Living your life in the most authentic, alive and passionate way does
not serve just you. It serves the world. Why do I say this? Well, just think
for a moment about the impact of denying your heart's desires, of b urying
your dreams. Really be willing to see the ripple effect of living in this
painful place. And now take a moment to get in touch with the energy, the
light and the love that is radiating through you when you are living your
purpose. Can you see and feel the dramatic difference? I sure hope so. It
is time to honor your truth. Know that the world is waiting to be blessed
by your special contribution. So I encourage you to give yourself full permission
to move forward with your dreams and to have no doubt that in doing so, you
are then giving others permission as well.
~ Clarity about your values As you navigate your journey,
what values are you fiercely committed to honoring and expressing more fully?
Who are you devoted to BEING, no matter what? And when it comes to growing
your dream, what core values are serving as your guide? If you have not yet
enjoyed the process of clarifying and consciously owning your values, I want
to strongly suggest that you not wait another minute. I am serious. And as
you leap into this lusciousness, be open to the possibility that the process
can be an absolute life changer. I am happy to share that it truly was for
me! Trust that once you have deep clarity about your values, you have an unparalleled
guide for decision making. You will begin to see and feel on a whole new level
that the more fully you choose to live i n alignment with your values, the
more joy and aliveness you experience. The more joy and aliveness you feel,
the stronger your connection to Source. And rest assured, it is this Divine
connection that is THE PATH for allowing in radical fulfillment and success.
~ Clarity about your vision/dream Where are you with taking
the time to thoroughly clarify and boldly declare what it is that you really
want? And please notice that I said what you REALLY want! If you were to paint
a picture from a place of pure possibilities and absolute trust, what would
your canvas convey? As you ponder your dream, what emerges in your heart?
What does your big vision hold? How does it feel? Who are you BEING? As you
play with this visioning process, I invite you to imagine that you are literally
placing an order with the Universe. And remember that the more clarity you
bring, the more the Universe can generously support you by providing the exact
resources and opportunities that will help you to grow into your vision. As
Tama J. Kieves shared so brilliantly in her book, This Time I Dance: Trusting
the Journey of Creating the Work You Love, " Trust the unseen networking
of all of life. Those invisible operators are standing by to take your call
and place your order."
~ Clarity about the following spiritual truth: When you ask, it is
given Everything we want is already here energetically. Period. It
is important for us to remember that whether we are doing so deliberately
or not, we are always engaged in a splendid process of co-creation with Source.
And when we ask, Source answers, every single time. No exceptions. Given this
reality, it is not our "job" to go out and forcefully make things
happen, but to be a vibrational match to our desires, to be on the same energetic
wavelength. Essentially, it is about releasing our resistance so that we are
truly open to receiving the desires of our heart. So I am curious. How aligned
do you feel with this TRUTH? What helps you to step into your dreams trusting
that you are 100% divinely supported? And how might you ease into the energy
of allowing, more and more and more?